The tend and befriend response

Type: Limitation
Study: Taylor et al. (2000)

  • For females, behavioural responses to stress are more characterised by a pattern of tend and befriend than fight-or-flight
  • This involves protecting themselves and their young through nurturing behaviours (tending) and forming protective alliances with other women (befriending)
  • Women’s responses to stress have evolved in the context of being a primary caregiver of the children
  • Fleeing at a sign of danger would put their offspring at risk

Negative consequences of fight or flight response

Type: Limitation

  • Adapted to help when our lives are in danger/physical activity
  • Modern stresses rarely require this physical activity
  • The problem for humans is when this stress response is repeatedly activated
    • i.e., increased blood pressure can damage blood vessels and eventually cause heart disease
  • Too much cortisol can suppress the immune system

Fight or flight does not provide a complete explanation

Type: Limitation
Study: Gray (1988)

  • Argues the first phase of reaction is not to fight or flee but to avoid confrontation
  • Prior to attacking or running, most animals/humans typically display the ‘freeze response’
  • the animal/human stops, looks and listens and is alert to the slightest sign of danger
  • The adaptative advantages of this are that freezing focuses attention and makes them look for new information to make the best response for that threat